Trish Hansley with a photo of her late son TJ who served in Iraq. Trish's 21 year old son died in his sleep at a military hospital last June after suffering from PTSD and other psychotic disorders after returning from a 12 month tour in Iraq. He died with 15 medicines in his body that had been given to him by doctors there. The family wants TJs name to be included on Kane County Memorial Wall as a casualty of the war. May 23, 2012 | Michael Smart~Sun-Times Media
More photos of TJ including center photo of Trish and TJ. May 23, 2012 | Michael Smart~Sun-Times Media
Memories of TJ are kept in framed collages of photos in the family home. Center photo TJ poses with his father and two brothers. May 23, 2012 | Michael Smart~Sun-Times Media
A photo of T.J. Hansley with his unit in Iraq is one of the treasured items in his mother's scrapbook collection. | Michael Smart~Sun-Times Media
Medals TJ earned from the military before he died. May 23, 2012 | Michael Smart~Sun-Times Media
A box of TJ's plaques, trophies and other accolades he earned while growing up. TJ, 21, died in his sleep at a military hospital last June after suffering from PTSD and other psychotic disorders after returning from a 12 month tour in Iraq. May 23, 2012 | Michael Smart~Sun-Times Media
There’s not a lot you can say to a mom whose grief is so raw. “I’m so sorry” seems to fall far short when every word she utters seems shrouded in despair. It’s been close to a year now since Trish Hansley buried her 21-year-old …
